North Carolina State Marriage Laws 

Couples planning to tie the knot in North Carolina, also known as The Tar Heel State, must be at least 18 years of age and must provide proof of age by way of a driver’s license, military or state ID, passport or certified copy of their birth certificate.  In addition, proof of identity and social security number must be shown by way of a social security card, W-2 form, pay-stub or other official document featuring the applicant’s social security number.  Neither blood nor medical tests are required, and there is no waiting period.  If either of the intended were previously married, the date of their divorce or of their former spouse’s death must be provided.  If the marriage ended within the last 60 days, proof may be required. 

Individuals who are under the age of 20 and wish to be married in the state of North Carolina must provide a certified copy of their birth certificate.  Anyone between the ages of 16 and 17 must have parental consent, while those age 14 to 15 must have a court order.  North Carolina does not permit those under the age of 14 to be married. 

The state of North Carolina does not have any residential requirements, which means you can exchange vows even if you are not a resident of the state.  Vacationers, former residents and all others are free to tie the knot in this southern state.  Once granted, a marriage license is valid for 60 days.  Application and/or marriage license fees may vary by county, which means you must check with the local courthouse regarding the actual cost and acceptable payment methods.  The average fee is $50.00, and it is advisable that applicants have cash on hand in the event that credit cards are not accepted. 

Same sex marriage is not permitted in the state of North Carolina.  Common law marriages, which are those that a state may acknowledge after a couple has lived together for a certain amount of time, are not recognized in the state.  A wedding can be officiated by an ordained or licensed clergyman or a magistrate.  

Planning a wedding isn’t state law, but it certainly makes for a more memorable experience.  The official state flower, which is the flowering dogwood, would be ideal for a bridal bouquet, wedding decorations, etc.  There are a number of tranquil locations, resorts and tourist destinations that would make North Carolina a wonderful choice for an upcoming wedding. 

The information contained in this article is designed to be used for reference purposes only.  It should not be used as, in place of or in conjunction with professional legal advice.  Marriage laws and requirements can change, which means that you should check with your county courthouse regarding the application process for a marriage license, laws, fees and other requirements.   

To obtain a copy of a North Carolina marriage certificate, send $15.00 to the Register of Deeds in the county where the marriage license was issued.

Code of North Carolina

Chapter 51 provides information on North Carolina marriage laws.